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Wednesday, October 26, 2011

Happy Birthday Granny







Happy Birthday Granny Rene





We hope that you are having a wonderful party with all the angels , enjoying all your favourite things



We miss you , but continue to treasure the happy memories and times we shared together





We will try and enjoy some of your favorite things today in your honor





Always loved, always remembered

xxxx

Wednesday, October 12, 2011

NEVER AGAIN MED

Well, we back to school and things are in full swing again at Little Leaps

Deqlan has had a couple of real frustrating days. We had to leave Ciara's party early goes Deqlan was just so upset and frustrated without an obvious reason to us? He was so upset the ipad nearly lef the car through the car window...

Deqlan did not sleep well on Sunday evening - waking up asking us for the light to be put on, to see my phone, to watch mnet series, then crying - and eventually fell asleep

When i fetched Deqlan from school on Monday, he started crying , which he has done before , but escalated into a full blown meltdown. The entire afternoon was spent crying and screaming in frustration - Deqlans entire body was so tense, his hands and feet pulled tight as strings - Nanna, Grandpa and I tried various things to get him to calm down, find out what was wrong - he kept wanting what his eyes saw ' You wanna crocodile" give him the crocodile, then crying again " You wanna Ipad" give him the ipad, then crying again " You wanna Mama's phone" and crying again and so it went on and on

I decided to try and get him into the car to get him home - still crying and resisting, but eventually the straps of the car chair , that deep pressure, seemed to calm him down. Deqie played on his ipad for about an hour , while Nanna and i sat with him, parked in the driveway. And something popped into my thoughts.......

Could the Vibrocil nose spray, Deqlan was on to clear his sinuses, cause this behaviour change?

Bingo! Lightbulb went on in Nanna's eyes and she went to fetch her MIMS book - a medical book with detailed information on medication and dosage and side effects, and this is what it says :

- TROUBLE SLEEPING
- ANXIETY
- FEAR
- HEADACHE
- DIZZINESS
- POUNDING HEART
- HEADACHE
- RESTLESSNESS
- CONFUSION
- IRRITABILITY
- WEAKNESS
- PYSCOTIC STATES

The ingredients include a from of ephydrine - a substance found in cold and flu medicine , that makes you shake and gives you that buzz? students also rely on it to keep them studying through the night

Just to check if my theory was right, we didnt give Deqlan the last dose

When i collected him from school yesterday, he was calm and happy - we waitied for him to be ready to leave , and when he said ' Now its time for Mama's car" we happily got him in the car back to Nanna's house

He had his afternoon nap, he slept last night, he was clearer in what he wanted yesterday

So im almost sure it was the nose spray - it sorted the sinus issues out but caused havoc on Deqies behaviour

My poor boy probably didnt understand why he was feeling so buzzy and out of control.....

Deqlan reacts to alot of meds - even herbal ones - so we got to try and test and put them on the list of NEVER AGAIN MEDS.

Tuesday, October 11, 2011

HELP GET BABY REEF TO L.A

Hello Friends, please help Reef get to Los Angeles for life altering treatment .Please text REEF to 38777 to help him get his treatment in LA. Cost is R10 per text! PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE!!!! For more on his story please visit www.savebabyreef.com

Friday, October 7, 2011

a great third term




hard to believe that deqlan starts his fourth and final term for the year on monday!!

he got a beautiful report and we are so incredibly proud of all his improvements and continued giant leaps!

deqlan still doesnt enjoy the things he doesnt enjoy, but he will do them now !! ayline introduced a reward system , where deqlan gets time to play on the compueter or ipad or see his logo file, as rewards! his favourite is the logo file, so lovingly created by ayline- a book of all his favourites brand logos and tv channels- he loves loves loves this file!!!

deqlan continues to do activities away from the class and avoids the hussle and bustle of the group activities. he definitely enjoys adults comnany better then kids- but he is playing so beautifully with keaton and especially khloe, all wonderful practise in making his own buddies!!


got a busy weekend ahead!!!!! hannahs party tomorow morning, coldplay tomorow night, and ciaras party on sunday!!

i have waited many many years for coldplay to come to south africa and they are finally here! cant wait

have a great weekend everyone, we delighted to have mark home from new zealand!!!! he had a great time and was blessed to have been shown so many things by kevin amd louise and rhyan and michael and sandi! hoping one day soon, we can all go together!!

god bless all our love
mark samm deqlan logan
be still and know that i am god

dadas trip to new zealand

mark and kevin at the south africa vs samoa game
what a beautiful family, louise , kevin and the gorgeous rhyan
how beautiful is he?
mark enjoying some ski ing at snow planet
our future little thomas fan!
mark and kevin at australia vs ireland game